I got fascinated by Oprah’s latest podcast with Brené Brown about trust.
I understood how wrong I was in giving trust to people without waiting for them to show me that they were really trustworthy.
Check out this great podcast there my friend my sister: “Dr. Brené Brown: The Anatomy of Trust | Oprah’s SuperSoul Conversations“.
Do you give trust easily or not my friend my sister?
I was so isolated. How could the relationship be light and playful?
We really need to surround ourselves with our friends while pursuing our passions my friend my sister.
It is a way of not being too needy towards our partner.
A man cannot be our friend, confident and shrink at the same time.
Before I left Europe to go and live in Africa, I got rid of all my bras which were hurting my rib cage with their underwire.
I shamefully wore grandma sports bras for a year.
Then the desire to feel beautiful for my man made me buy a classical bra again. What a mistake! Again it was hurting me and preventing me to improvise a dance or a yoga pose in the middle of the day.
After a lot of searching, I discovered the Dragonfly brand, specialized in bikram yoga and pole dance clothes. Their lightweight sports bras are gorgeous and very comfortable!
No underwire, soft fabric and vibrant colors, I love them, E cup or not 😉
I am thinking about my exes, the men I loved, not the abusers of course.
I am grateful for my exes to have made me who I am today. They have been catalysts in my life, they made me grow and evolve.
My love for them does not mean that I talk to them nor see them.
I owe them so much. This beautiful vibe which is gratitude is enough to carry on living without trying to mix what belongs to the past to my present.
Technically I have three exes and two men I loved from afar without ever getting involved with them. Five loves. Always super short relationships, except one which lasted 13 years, on and off therefore quite short actually. I am confessing all of this to you so you feel less alone if this is the case for you as well my friend my sister.
I have never experienced a true relationship with a man and I never lived with someone else (except two violent persons).
Sometimes I feel like writing the name of the men I loved on tiny pieces of paper and place them on my desk. I see them as guardian angels now.
If I am honest with myself, they left me because they were not really available, physically or emotionally. It was not a lack of love.
So I choose to put aside my wounded ego and focus on love instead.
My exes protect me. It could be wishful thinking, but at the same time the world is full of very subtle and invisible yet very real things.
When I love it is for ever my friend my sister. I want to thank my exes while letting my heart completely available for an available and free man who will truly want to be with me.
Some women have children and some don’t. What’s the issue?
You can fulfill your full life potential without having kids.
Choosing not to have children does not make you less of a woman.
As you express your divine feminine, you are going to give birth to projects and beautiful creations anyway.
Being honest and making aware decisions is the bravest thing in a world of appearances.
My life as a mother would have been so much more difficult without the help of angels here and there.
Childless women who came to the rescue, as described in one chapter of the great book Committed by Elizabeth Guilbert (who does not have children).
Falling in love with myself instead of loving men who do not really want to be with me.
Falling in love with myself and following my passions and the activities which bring meaning to my life before dedicating myself to someone else.
In the video, I introduce you to four amazing women I love to follow on Instagram: Lyvia Cairo, Nataliethebeliever, Jemenbatsleclito et Maman Orange.
Lastly, keeping trust and patience so as to one day fall in love with a brave and trustworthy man who loves me for who I am.
I am creating videos for you because it makes me feel alive.
Creating is like a ray of sunshine on a grey day.
Being able to answer your questions of one of the things that brings me the most happiness in the world.
All my videos are dedicated to you my friend my sister.
Lots of love as always,