The root of romantic love is self love and the sap is being happy for our beloved

The root of romantic love is self love and the sap is being happy for our beloved Claire Samuel

Self love seems to be everywhere in the self help movement. I love how Sherry Argov puts it very simply for us: “If he can’t treat himself well, he’ll never treat you well“. I reviewed her great book here.

why men love bitches by sherry argov

It rings so true to me but it is recent knowledge. I was not able to grasp this beforehand. I was desperately attracted to men with addictions. I wanted to help them so much. Thanks to Teal Swan’s teachings, I now understand that I deeply wanted to be good by sacrificing my well being, my dignity and my whole person to a man. Deep down, I needed to appear like a person of good virtue because I thought love was conditional.

Shadows Before Dawn: Finding the Light of Self-Love Through Your Darkest Times

 

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