Not loving ourselves can be very dangerous. Self-care and self-respect are very important if we want a healthy life and beautiful relationships. My experience of self-hatred led me to being with an abuser twice in my twenties. Narcissistic men will blame you for everything and reinforce your already low self-worth. Moreover, you will be the first to blame yourself if you have no self-love like I did. It is my wish that we all take self-care very seriously sisters.