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Bad circumstances pave the way to a better life #motivation

Posted on 10 June 201823 May 2018 by Claire Samuel

The place I was working at was so awful that I looked for a way out. I went back to college. I became a lawyer.

Thanks to my burn-out, I became self-employed and published my book The knot in the spiral.

I teach it to my children and repeat it to myself every day: in each bad circumstance, there is something good for us. May we use our intelligence to find it.

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1. Demander un effort, donner une consigne, . 2. Devant l’action de l’ #enfant , constater s’il a choisi de respecter la consigne ou s’il a choisi de faire autre chose, puis . 3. Décrire les #conséquences du choix de l’enfant : s’il choisit de se comporter comme un bébé, je ne pourrai plus lui confier autant de responsabilités. . Mon but est de ne jamais faire honte à mes enfants. . Je fais du mieux possible pour me concentrer sur leur comportement. . Je veux qu’ils comprennent que leur #valeur ne peut jamais être altérée. . Ce qu’ils choisissent de faire ne change rien, même si parfois ils font des bêtises. . Je reste persuadée que les #enfants cherchent à faire du mieux qu’ils peuvent. . Nouvelle vidéo YouTube sur la chaîne #ClaireSamuelenfrançais "Comment réagir lorsque nos enfants ne nous écoutent pas ? Astuce bêtises #éducationpositive " . #kale #éleversesenfants #mamansolo #enfance #maman #éleverseulesesenfants #mère

1. Ask your #child for an effort, ask for something to be done, . 2. Describe what the child has decided to do, describe how your #kid did the requested action or chose not to do it, and . 3. Describe the #consequences the child now faces according to his choice: had he chose to behave like a baby, I will not be able to entrust him with as many responsabilities. . My goal is to #nevershame my #children. . I do my best to focus on the #behavior they choose to display. . Their #worth cannot be altered, they cannot be bad but only choose bad behavior sometimes. . New YouTube video on the channel #ClaireSamuelinEnglish "How to react when kids do not listen? 3 #positiveeducation tips" . #mushrooms #raisingchildren #raisingkids #motherhood #mother #mum #beingamum

Je refuse que mon fils se sente mal en pensant que son père m’a fait du mal. . Je n’ai #pasderegrets car aller au plus profond de la douleur infligée par une relation aussi toxique m’a appris une leçon précieuse : je suis #responsable de ma vie. . Je suis heureuse que ma #fille et mon #fils soient nés. . La #douleur ne dure que si on la laisse durer. . La maltraitance sur les #enfants ne s’installe que si je la laisse s’installer en refusant de voir. . J’ai regroupé mes dernières forces pour m’enfuir et #protéger mes enfants. . Donc pas de regrets mais de la #fierté et un grand soulagement d’être #libre 🌸🌼 . J’ai pris la #décision que chaque minute de ma vie allait compter désormais. . Personne ne peut avoir du pouvoir sur ma vie sans ma permission. . Je remercie la vie de m’avoir offert cette #expérience malheureuse car elle m’a donnée de beaux enfants et m’a appris beaucoup sur la vie. . #Aucunregret d’autant plus si mon #histoire peut aider d’autres femmes à ne pas tomber dans le piège de la manipulation qui peut mener à la maltraitance. . Nouvelle vidéo YouTube sur la chaîne #ClaireSamuelenfrançais "Pourquoi j'explique à mon fils que je ne regrette pas d'avoir été avec un manipulateur ? #sansregrets "

I don’t want my son to feel bad thinking I went through hell when I was living with his father. . I have no regrets because #abuse taught me a very important #lesson : I am 100% #responsible for my life. . I am #blessed to have given #birth to my #daughter and to my #son . #Pain lasts if we #choose to let it last longer. . Violence towards the #kids can happen only when I choose to ignore it. . I gathered my last strengths to #escape the toxic #relationship I was trapped in. . My aim was to protect my #children more than staying #alive myself. . I have no regrets. I am proud to have escaped. . I am grateful to be alive. . #Everysecond of my life is a #gift and a #blessing . I learned that nobody could have any power over me unless I gave them such power. I am #incharge of my life. . No #regrets 🌸🌼 . Even more so if my #story can help women to avoid falling into the trap of #codependency #manipulation and #abuse . New YouTube video on the channel #ClaireSamuelinEnglish "Why do I say to my son that I have #noregrets about having lived with an abusive man?" . #rose #tears #flowers

Les manipulateurs veulent nous rabaisser pour nous faire faire les choses que nous n’avons pas envie de faire et qui ne sont pas dans notre intérêt. . Ils ciblent les femmes fortes mais peu sûres d’elles-mêmes. . S’ils choisissaient des femmes faibles, elles se casseraient tout de suite. . Leur but est de réussir à rendre une femme #rayonnante comme un soleil comme l’ombre d’elle-même, parfois jusqu’à la mort. . Je suis tellement inspirée par l’histoire de @lisa2motivate survivante de la #violenceconjugale qui fait des conférences dans le monde entier aujourd’hui pour aider les gens à attirer l’ #abondance dans leur vie. . Nouvelle vidéo YouTube sur la chaîne #ClaireSamuelenfrançais "Pourquoi les manipulateurs veulent-ils nous convaincre que nous avons un problème ? #liberté " . #survivantes #soutienauxfemmes #violencefaiteauxfemmes #phénix #choisirlavie #renaître #soutienauxfemmes #entremamans #fleur

Manipulative people want to make us smaller so we do things we do not want to do and things which are not in our best interest. . They prefer strong women who are underneath lacking self-#confidence . Shall they chose weak women, they would break immediately. . Their aim is to get a brilliant women to slowly dwindle, sometimes until death. . I am so inspired by the great @Lisa2motivate who #survived #domesticabuse and is now touring the world to help people attract #abundance . I love this interview of Lisa Nichols, it really touched me: “Lisa Nichols Interview – Increase Your Sense Of Value And Stop Postponing Happiness!“. Link on clairesamuel.com of course 😚 . New YouTube video on the channel #ClaireSamuelinEnglish "Why do abusive men want to convince us we have a problem? #freedom " . #survivingabuse #womenempowerment #theknotinthespiral #supportforwomen #mother #survivors #sisterhood #leaf #phenix

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