After a breakup, there is a time to cry and grieve.
Then comes the time to draw lessons from what happened to grow and move forward in life.
By listening to and reading what the fantastic Jay Shetty puts into the world, I could see myself in two great ideas which are lessons for me.
The first lesson is that not forcing love is a sign of maturity.
It is useless to run after a man who says no. Furthermore, it is not respectful.
The second lesson is that even if we terribly miss a man, it does not mean that the end of the relationship was a bad thing.
He left and this belongs to the natural order of things, even if it hurts. There may be a reason in it that I cannot see yet.