Have you been heartbroken recently like I was my friend my sister?
With amazing synchronicity, I was chatting on Instagram about how shocking it is to plan for the future with a man we love and the next minute to be left alone and shocked.
Then I heard a great interview of Kyle Cease in which he said about being left by a partner:
“He did not break your heart, he broke your expectations. By breaking your expectations, he brought you closer to your heart.”
This is exactly what I feel. I was hurt because I had expectations such as being in a long-term relationship with him.
However if I am honest with myself we were not so compatible actually. So he made things easier by leaving me.
He brought me closer to my heart, to who I really am, beyond the lies I am tempted to tell myself sometimes.
I feel grief. I did not know I was so in love with him.
He was part of my life and my mind for such a long time that loosing him was very harsh.
I have something to learn about it. It took me a bit of time to discover what it was.
I think I found it! All of a sudden, my attraction to him disappeared when I realized that taking care of me was definitely not one of his top priorities.
Finally, I read a post by Teal Swan which confirmed that idea in the best way possible. She writes:
“There is nothing more sexier and more desired in the world to a woman than a man who is always looking for little ways to ensure her of her safety and well-being and to enhance it.”
There is a divine man somewhere whose desire is to take care of us my friend my sister.
I translated the following post in English in the video my friend my sister.