The key point is that if we make peace with breaking up with someone, then we won’t live in fear of a break-up in all our relationships. I can so relate to that.
Last time I was in love, I loved him so much I really didn’t want it to end. At the same time, I was so worried it could end that my behavior may not have been my usual self. I wasn’t aware of it but my behavior may have accelerated the end of the relationships I so wanted to last.
So I love this idea of making peace with the possibility that a break-up may happen. We don’t control anything in love anyway. Furthermore, in my case, love never goes away. I am still in love with the men I loved. I just choose to turn the page by not having them in my life anymore so I can welcome someone new one day. But love, my friend my sister, that love is eternal. And somehow, it is comforting to me. That love never goes away. Break-up or no break-up. Love is eternal and warms my lonely heart.