Love or friendship ?

I feel, but this is only my humble opinion, that we don’t need romantic love because we can remain single and be fulfilled. However, I feel that we cannot do without friendship because humans need the affection of others in order to be happy.

What do I know?

I am not an expert or a coach. I’m not a woman who is happy in love or surrounded by fifty friends either.

I speak to you as an ordinary woman and if you need a coach maybe you can watch other content instead such as Alexi Panos, Ralph Smart or Isabel Palacios.

My goal is to prove to you that you are not alone in hesitating, asking yourself questions, walking along this weird path called life my friend my sister.

Meeting people

Personally, I don’t develop deep relationships quickly because I need to feel safe above all, in love and in friendship. Still, I can easily bond with the people I meet because I don’t expect anything. If we do cool activities together, so much the better, if not too bad. I take it slow and only give my trust when it is deserved.

No hormonal whirlwind

Friendship is fascinating because it’s like love except for one thing: there is no physical attraction or the chemistry of romantic attraction with all the hormonal changes that it includes. Therefore, one is perhaps even more sincere in friendship. That’s what I like. There is no seduction.

A certain way of seeing friendship

I have very few friends, but the ones I have mean a lot. We’ve known each other for a long time. I can say everything I want to them. Freedom. On the other hand, I belong to these weird autonomous people so I don’t feel the need to communicate regularly with my friends. If I had a boyfriend it would be different.

The important thing for me is to be 100% present when we are together, never look at my phone, practice active listening, and be there if my friend needs help.

Always tell the truth

The last thing on this topic of friendship is: don’t mix it up. Either it’s love or friendship, but I can’t stand unclear positions. Everything must be clear otherwise I am no longer safe. And you?

What do you think my friend my sister?

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