How can I avoid becoming an easy prey for abuse? Because perpetrators choose their prey. The man I described in my first book said it to me one day, that I was a prey for him, a target. In hindsight, I realise I made two big mistakes, among others.
First mistake: amnesia
I tend to forgive easily and forget what happened. I do not hold grudges. I saw what he did and what he said, but I didn’t keep that in my mind. I moved on. I was easily manipulated by his words and false promises.
Second mistake: naivety
I believe people are intrinsically good. Yes they do make mistakes but deep down they are good, they have a soul, a heart, compassion. No. Just no. this is not the case at all. Some people want to behave in a bad way and they just choose to do bad things. They don’t believe in God nor in karmic law. They do bad things to others.
I know it can seem so weird to you, because you would never do bad things for the sake of it. But not everybody is like you and me my friend my sister.