Here’s a quick way to let go of your imperfections

Here’s a quick way to let go of your imperfections
Here’s a quick way to let go of your imperfections

I received a question from Sev who told me that she has so many complexes about her smile that she lost all her self-esteem.

First, sincerely every person has imperfections. Even the most beautiful woman on earth finds faults in her. In fact, very often very pretty women do not realize it and focus on complexes that only they can see. So you’re not alone, we all have imperfections.

Then think of the man or woman you love. Would you love him more if he was absolutely perfect? Or would you love him even more because of his little flaw that makes him unique, that makes him who he is?

Finally, my friend my sister, life is too short to ruin it yourself. Others can think what they want about you, it will only be a projection of their own mindset. Other people think about themselves before everything else you know. They may judge you, but they will quickly move on. While you’re brooding over what they told you, they’ll be living their lives without worrying about it. So drop it. Drop the judgment of others. Let go of their wickedness. Let them experience karma for themselves and enjoy your life my friend my sister.

Protect your energy or how to avoid losing energy at work with family and when people

Protect your energy or how to avoid losing energy at work with family and when people

Thank you Gisele for your great question: How to avoid losing my energy in human relationships, at work, with my family and in general?

First, why do you have to deal with toxic people in your life? Maybe it is time to think of a little change in your life circumstances if you can afford it. If you cannot for the moment, plan an exit strategy so when the time is right, you can escape your current situation if it is draining your energy my friend my sister.

More about self awareness in relationships in my book The Knot in the Spiral my friend my sister.