I feel like it is my mission to be the voice of the women who are trapped into a toxic relationship. It is my duty to share with the world how harsh it is to make the decision to leave when you have friends, neighbors, coworkers, family around you.
How can a woman decide to leave easily when she has children and they have their own little life and friends nearby? Leaving an abuser means moving in a different place. Such a decision cannot be taken lightly, even if the goal is to reach safety.
Sometimes I feel life as a single mother is so unfair. I want to live in an abundance mindset so I try not to say to my daughter that I cannot afford what she wants. However, she asks me so many things!
Moreover I know that children need a lot of attention and I am only a human being. Of course it is fantastic to be able to live within an intentional community when you are a single mother.
Nevertheless, when I hear myself start to complain about being a single mother, I quickly remind my self that some people experienced far more dramatic situations but came out of it stronger. I think of Teal Swan and everything she had to go through. When I see her now, so inspiring and vibrant, I am left with one thing ony: gratitude for being alive.
Every morning, I ride my bike to go to the farmers’ market, to go grocery shopping at the supermarket, to pay my bills, to run errands.
I make a point of doing what is most difficult first. Such a productivity secret helps me to do what I love the most afterwards.
I do not eat before my important tasks are completed.
I usually record youtube videos before noon.
After my big meal at noon, I am free to write on my blog. The afternoon is dedicated to the children.
I highly recommend these two great videos. The first one is “The Morning Routine For Success | Marisa Peer” and the second one: “Earn Your Food- Nothing Till 4“.
More than 5 years ago now, I read the amazing book May Cause Miracles now by Gabrielle Bernstein. I loved it so much that it was my duty to gift it to someone I love so that the good vibes can flow into another life.
A miracle happened in my life. I thought I was in danger and stuck. However, my generous neighbor helped me to make my landlord travel from another country to Tunisia and sign a power of attorney in favor of his cousin, to whom I had been paying the rent since I arrived in the house. Moreover I now pay my rent by check, instead of cash. The solution appeared in my life, easily and effortlessly.
May your life be blessed with as many miracles as possible my friend my sister.
Did you see how Jay Shetty received his award? Check out the video “Jay Shetty Wins Health and Wellness – Streamys 2018“.
I love how he dedicated it to the people who did not commit suicide thanks to his videos. This is why I love the Internet. It offers us so many possibilities. For us and for others.
In her great book The Empowered Woman, Kate Magic writes: “The universe doesn’t like it when we play it safe , so then things are more likely to become stuck and stagnant“.
I remind myself to be like water, flowing effortlessly along.
I work on trusting the universe whenever I feel anxiety rising.
Always moving. Reminding myself I am not stuck. Reminding myself of the grace and beauty all around me, supporting me in my endeavours.