What the movie The Big Sick taught me

What the movie The Big Sick taught me

The Big Sick is about a man who chooses to follow his heart instead of pleasing others.

The Big Sick is about a person who demonstrates that sometimes we can go against our parents’ opinion without having to cut ties and be at war. With humor and kindness, the two magical qualities.

The other person is like a mirror #selfawareness

The other person is like a mirror #selfawareness

The good thing when we are in a relationship is that the other person acts like a mirror, whether we want it or not.

The mirror reflects our good but also our bad traits.

Romantic relationships are such an opportunity for self-awareness and growth.

We always evolve, it never ends. All our life!

Which is the most beautiful sorrow ever? #love

Which is the most beautiful sorrow ever? #love

One man said that heartbreak is the most beautiful sorrow ever. Because it means the heart has loved.

It is incredible how such an easy shift in perspective changes the whole game. I feel as if there is nothing to worry about anymore as regard to love. Even it is ends (and does it really? usually it only changes form and appearance), it still is a beautiful thing because it is the proof we have experience the most magical emotion a human being can experience: love.

The French man who expressed this amazing idea is named Franck Lopvet. He has a youtube channel as well.

Why are the friends of our man so important? #healthyrelationships

Why are the friends of our man so important? #healthyrelationships

I made the mistake before. I did not realize that the friends we choose mean so much about ourselves too.

I decided to ignore the red flag when the few men around the perpetrator felt dangerous.

My friend my sister, we are not here to judge others. We are responsible for the choices we make. Having discernment when it comes to the friends of a man is a sure way to enjoy a healthy happy relationship.

Why so prudent? Betrayal and rebuilding our life sister

Why so prudent? Betrayal and rebuilding our life sister

You may find yourself be so cautious after you left an abusive relationship. Such extra-care about who we come in contact with may be useful. However, my friend my sister, my wish for us all is to let our walls down. So good people can enter.

 

 

 

To be single or not? #healthy #relationships

To be single or not? #healthy #relationships

I have been single for 8 years now. Being alone means I can discover who I am. I experience freedom. I practice self-care. My goal is to help you not feel lonely if you are single as well.

However, staying single is not the goal. It is only a transition period. I am saving myself for someone healthy.