In the second part of the French interview, Chantal Revault d’Allones and I talk about how we are already past the domination and competition world. We already entered the area of cooperation and collaboration between human beings, women and men together. We are truly interdependent. If you read French, enjoy “Patriarcat : fin de partie“.
In the first part of the French interview, Chantal Revault d’Allones and I talk about the way patriarchy or domination by men is a social construct through which humans have seen and thought the world for many centuries. Domination leads to violence, abuse and damage to the planet. If you read French, enjoy “Patriarcat : fin de partie” and the original interview that was done on YouTube in French.
Life is not divided between black and white. Each manipulator needs a victim because they actually embody a similar vibe. Choosing the wrong path is one thing. However, the power to choose again is one of the best prerogatives of human beings. Our intrinsic value cannot ever be diminished. It belongs to all of us humans. The biggest obstacle is the one which our own mind imposes on us.
Lots of reflexion for a common issue: a very handsome young man taking advantage of a tourist woman, robbing her of her goods by getting access to her heart first.
In this video, I mention a great book called The belly of the Atlantic by Fatou Diome.
I read “Calling in “The One”: 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life” by Katherine Woodward Thomas during a one-week yoga retreat in Hammamet, Tunisia in 2013. I was heartbroken after having met a fantastic man, who was in fact unavailable. My pain was eased thanks to this great book, which goes very deep into our childhood, trauma healing and creating a new reality. I read it several times since then. Katherine Woodward Thomas has recently written a new book called “Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After“.
The pain of not being held in a man’s arms sometimes feels like my skin is burning. However, I feel so happy when I visualize how worthy a man can be if I stay patient and focused. I recently felt attracted to a man, but I consciously stopped myself from getting too close to him when I realized my intuition was telling me not to get closer. For me, the right path is having the patience to wait for a man who I feel connected to on a very deep level. It transcends everything else. As I explain in my book, I already met someone like that. He was not available at the time. However, I am convinced many worthy men exist. We do not have only one twin flame in the whole world.
The possibilities are endless and patience is key.
Life has got humor. Life makes us meet people when we least expect it. I had a conversation with a snow-white man, a short, intense, unique and unexpected chat. As I say in my book, I have so much admiration for men, including if they are younger than me. It was the only point where I was in disagreement with him. I met 25-year-old men who were so intelligent and taught me lots about life and destiny.
A nice man kindly asked me the question on my YouTube channel Claire Samuel in English. I must admit that since I started sharing, I made the decision to offer resources and inspiration to women only. The reason is simple: I feel more useful by focusing on women only. However, I am aware that men need help too. Moreover, I am cutting my audience in half by choosing to ignore half of the population. Nevertheless, I felt in my heart a deep need for support, help and experience sharing between women only. My desire is to stay very far from competition between women, in order to reach a place where we share together, where we get stronger together and where each one of use can shine her unique and beautiful light. Consequently, I choose integrity and my deep intuition by assuming my choice. I have so much respect and admiration for men. I strive to become the best version of the woman I am while wishing joy, happiness and success to all of us, men and women. To you who kindly asked the question, thank you.