Why knowing a friend is not knowing a lover? friendship and romantic relationships

Why knowing a friend is not knowing a lover? friendship and romantic relationships

We feel like we know ourselves so well because we have been friends for what seems like an eternity and it is so simple and natural when we are together.

I know people like that. Some people who are my friends since we are fourteen years old.

However, if I enter a romantic relationship with one of my friends, everything will be different and in a way, we need to start over, getting to know ourselves as if we were meeting for the first time.

Why am I telling you this my friend my sister? Because I feel I went too fast with some men I loved, assuming I already knew themselves anyway. I do regret it because it kind of accelerated the end of the relationship.

What do you think?

Unboxing of the spiralizer bought at Lidl to create vegetables noodles for my raw recipes

Unboxing of the spiralizer bought at Lidl to create vegetables noodles for my raw recipes

Honestly, it has been years since I was dreaming of getting a spiralizer in the kitchen to create amazing vegetable noodles which go perfectly with nice raw dressings with cashews for instance.

I spotted a spiralizer at about 20 dollars at my Lidl store (and not 35 as I said in the video), then I added it to my cart wondering if it was a good idea because I really have to watch what I spend at the moment. By the way, thank for for supporting the channel and the blog my friend my sister. It is crucial to allow me to continue creating.

It was without considering my daughter’s big heart who was very aware that I dreamt of a spiralizer for years. My friend my sister, she forced me to keep it in the cart as I was putting it back on the shelves!

I have only good things to say about this spiralizer. It is electric, easy to mount and to clean and has three kinds of blades to create vegetable spaghettis, linguines and tagliatelles with carrots, beetroots, pumpkin, zucchini and so on.

Let’s meet in the Recipes Playlist to discover what this baby can do in a raw kitchen my friend my sister!

18 fevrier #spiraleur th 3

I could not thank him so I try to be the best person I can be or transmission and honor

I could not thank him so I try to be the best person I can be or transmission and honor

When I was at the end of a 2-year assistant training when I was around 20, one of my teachers was like a father to me. I would go to his office very early in the morning before the class started to get inspiration and support.

He was truly supporting me and he did believe in me, maybe more than I believed in me. For instance, he immediately spotted how easy writing was for me.

But I went to live abroad and lost touch with him.

When I came back to France many years afterwards, enlightened by an abusive relationship which taught me the power of life by bringing me to the brink of death, I wanted to find him to thank him again.

Impossible to get back to him. Maybe he is not alive anymore as he was already an old man.

I turn my sadness into the willingness to raise my behavior at a level that honors him.

I want to be the best person possible so that he can be proud of me from wherever he is now and see that the beautiful energy of his generosity is still supporting me everyday.

So the cycle can continue.

When you loose both your #best #friend and the man you #love #lostloves

When you loose both your #best #friend and the man you #love #lostloves

My friend my sister, I have no judgement toward this, but a ton of compassion to send to you if like me you experienced the lost of two persons at the same time at the end of a beautiful love story.

It is so beautiful to fall in love to our best friend. Nevertheless, it is difficult to act as if nothing happened and go back to the neutral land of friendship after you have truly loved the man.

You are not alone. I feel you and it also happened to me my friend my sister.

 

How to make a #beauty #hair #mask with #coconut oil? natural and easy

How to make a #beauty #hair #mask with #coconut oil? natural and easy

The secret to naturally soft hair my friend my sister? Oil masks!

After experimenting with the lazy version of the coconut oil ritual Review of the no rinse conditioner Palmer’s with coconut oil and monoi, I tried to apply half a teaspoon of organic coconut oil on the lengths of my hair in the evening. I braided my hair and shampooed it the next day. Only two shampoos were required.

My hair was super soft and light!

Visit to the Roman #arenas of #Arles in the South of #France #travel and explore

Visite des #arènes romaines de la ville d'#Arles dans le sud de la #France #voyager et explorer
Visite des #arènes romaines de la ville d'#Arles dans le sud de la #France #voyager et explorer

Today I invite you on a nice tour of the Roman arenas of Arles, a Provencal town in the heart of the South of France, Camargue.

Let’s explore France together!

For my sisters who live alone and the most antiglamour video

For my sisters who live alone and the most antiglamour video

In Paris I paid about $350 to a plumber because a tiny toy blocked everything in the bathroom and kitchen.

Today I share with you what I discovered to unblock toilets without having to ask an expensive plumber to do so!

Either I will have given you a tip between women who live by themselves, either I will have made you laugh out loud, in both cases I believe that one secret of happiness is to not take ourselves seriously!

So here is a video about the sticker poop !

How to handle #teenagers and #socialmedia for worried #mums #communicate and #supervise with respect

How to handle #teenagers and #socialmedia for worried #mums #communicate and #supervise with respect
How to handle #teenagers and #socialmedia for worried #mums #communicate and #supervise with respect

I have been asked questions by two women from our beautiful community about our teenagers and how to deal with them being exposed to social media and, unfortunately pornography. How to handle this? Can we avoid it? Maybe prevent it to protect the brain of our children and ensure the appropriate development of our teens?

Empowered by the reading of a book (in French) about raising teenagers differently, which was so good that I did a review about it on youtube, I apply two principles to raising my teens.

The first one is an easy and open communication channel. My wish is for that link to never be broken, that they are always free to confide in me, without any shame, knowing that since they are small children, I never told them off when they admitted a mistake to me. I do not make fun of them. I listen and try to understand.

The second principle lies in respectful supervision, which is the consequence of an easy communication channel. I am very aware that I cannot control everything. Where I can have an impact is by supporting my teens with kindness and respect, trusting them while explaining to them the dangers of internet and pornography for instance.

How to handle #teenagers and #socialmedia for worried #mums #communicate and #supervise with respect

If you have tips about handling our teenagers being exposed to the dangers of the internet, please share below and help other women my friend my sister!

#Unboxing Raw Living number 8 or deluxe Tachyon eye mask and #seaweed kelp and nori

#Unboxing Raw Living number 8 or deluxe Tachyon eye mask and #seaweed kelp and nori

In my new Raw Living order, there are as usual amazing products that I am delighted to share with you today my friend my sister!

First a deluxe eye mask with Tachyon technology which has been created to shield our body from EMFs. It has ear plugs with Tachyon in them as well. The experience is unique. I use it for my daily meditation practice as well as to sleep at night of course. The fabric is soft on my eyes and I have the best restful night sleep ever!

Second, I bought some seaweed! Kelp noodles are great with a creamy cashew dressing and raw nori sheets are perfect to make easy and quick raw recipes: just add veggies inside, roll it up and you have a nutritious meal! Think of a nice dip to go with it! My Recipes Playlist is there to inspire you my friend my sister.

Check out the great store Raw Living today!

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Beauty #review of two organic vegan #mascaras special small eyes short eyelashes

Beauty #review of two organic vegan #mascaras special small sensitive eyes and short eyelashes
Beauty #review of two organic vegan #mascaras special small sensitive eyes and short eyelashes

Today I compare the Logona mascara and the Mademoiselle sensitive mascara by Naturkosmetik:

Honestly they are both great. The differences are in their price (Logona is about twice the price if Mademoiselle sensitive) and the shape of their brush: Logona mascara has a better brush for small eyes and short eyelashes.

Please share your favorite organic vegan mascara my friend my sister!

Beauty #review of two organic vegan #mascaras special small sensitive eyes and short eyelashes